Yesterday was my 6 years wedding anniversary. We spent most of the day out at Gilroy and then had dinner in Monterey at a Japanese steak house we like down near Fisherman's Wharf. I love you, Yong Mi. My Ecosystem Details

This is post -valentine day .Color is still "Red" all ard. well Valentine is a day for Young but it means more who are Living with their Love ..but taking it for-granted ..love have become trite for them.Then V-day is an opportunity to become [email protected] opportunity ..warm -up yr relations again...say yr valentine at very morning u that u luv her /him ...then feel the change.It feels like our LUV is warm as when both of us were in LUV first time...same warmness ..same LUV...kisses ......

So my SO, Hyperboeran Wanderer wrote a really wonderful article as a birthday present to me. One of the things I love is to hear him tell me stories about our life. Mostly because I have sucha bad memory but also because I like how everything is so much more vivid when told in his words. We have a lot of really great memories together, but there is one that I have to write. It's about the day I fell in love with him. Segue****He told a story about how I happen to have left hook from C...

So I'm sitting here wallowing in my own misery. If you don't want to hear me complain, then stop reading now because the way I am feeling now...it probably won't be pretty. Matt left again this morning. I feel like I am going to break. Everything hurts and I just want to crawl into bed and sob. I'm not scared because I am alone again. I'm not worried that I can't deal with it. I'm miserable because I know I wil get through this once again, but I just don't want to. I don't want to b...

Hey everyone! I have good news!! My boyfriend of 2 years proposed to me last night during my break at work!! I am ENGAGED!! It was so sweet. He comes in and starts in on me about my online relationships and we started arguing about them. Then he says, "Whatever. I didn't come here to start an argument. I just have to ask you a question. Would you sorta wanna someday ya know be the mother of my children, maybe?" "Are you asking me to marry you?" "Maybe. Why?" "Cause if you are the ...

I heard yesterday an amazing stat. Over 70% of all marriages end up with one or the other partner getting involved in an affair. I want to know, who would keep you faithful if you were lucky enough to have this person as a spouse. Don't waste my time with the self-rightious hogwash. I'll give you my pick in one week.

Hi. I know you are out there and just in case you are, I am hoping you read my journal one day. You are my future husband. I have been married before and it was disastrous, abusive, and nothing but a nightmare. But I am a reasonable woman and am not holding it against you. I did have some requirements for whom I shall marry to meet, but I stupidly compromised every one of them for some one who did not deserve it. I may meet you today, in 10 years, or already know you. I am in no rush, but am ...

I guess I'll post this in marital issues. We have engaged 7 months now. We've been together over a year and a half though it seems like more than that. I left everything and everyone I knew to be with Mal. At first we both moved to Atlanta to live with my brother, we stayed there for four months, he wasn't able to find a job the whole time we were there and we didn't like it there much so we moved back to where he was from which is Austin, Texas. We got a nice two bedroom apartment, his brothe...

I was reading Jessica a book she had checked out from the library over the weekend. It was a fun book, and one that I felt uniquely suited to reading her. The title was "Stinky, Smelly Feet". As I read it, though, I came to a realization. I have stinky, smelly feet. So does my wife. And I bet every one of us here does as well. In fact I am positive that every one of us has stinky, smelly feet. In the story, the protagonist is a duck with a problem. Every time he takes his shoes o...

One year has passed since wife 1 walked out and I have had no contact with her or any of her family since when her sister calls me and invites me to dinner. Smelling a rat I asked if wife 1 would be there and is she interested in trying again. After a long pause and a sigh she admitted that it was her idea and that she wanted to see me in hopes of reconciliation. I politely declined and indicated that I had moved on and the way she handled the separation made it clear I had no choice. Bes...

So it is a hot August day and three guys show up with a truck to move out nearly everything in the apartment. I was left with a loaner TV on a wobbly metal stand, some blankets, my clothes and sleeping bag and a few odds and ends. At least I had a TV and plenty of floor to sleep on, we didn’t have a lot but now I had much less. My wife, the love of my life, after our lives were the best they have ever been, disappeared from my life with “sign here”. The apartment is empty and quiet, I c...

So I have been left alone in the apartment we shared, our first home, our daily love nest......I was crazy trying to figure out what was going on, what is she doing and why. Its true her hormones were going crazy, more than we could know at the time, and her behavior was very different and mean spirited compared to the sweet person I married. I was lost, alone and scared. I could not sleep, did not eat, I was so nervous. I paced the little apartment and never did go to bed for the first...

Young Love...is there anything any sweeter? My first wife and I started dating when I was just 15 and we stayed together, played together and were soul mates in every respect. We married when I was 21 she was 20 and had almost five very happy years together. Work/school every day, us together every night (I was younger then) deep in the "can't keep our hands off of each other" stage for years (Heaven). Work was good, love was good and life was a beautiful playground. After two years of...

I have a problem. It is really a simple one, but one that has plagued me all of my marriage thus far (only 6 years and change). And I have recognized this problem for some time now, so it isn't news. Heck, my wife and I have talked about it as well. So she is privy to the problem. The truth is, I am a mechanic. And it infuriates my wife to no end sometimes. I understand why as well. My wife is a very emotional person. It is one of the things that attracted me to her in the first ...

*Number of people in my immediate family: 4 *Number of current marriages in my immediate family: 4 *Percentage of my immediate family who are either themselves divorced, or are married to a previously divorced partner: 100% *Total number of (past and present) marriages between the members of the 4 current couples: 16 *Average length of these marriages: 6.5 years *Percentage of these divorces caused by infidelity/new love interest: 100% *Percentage of these divo...